If your man does these 8 things to you, go get married

For whom did the Prophet Muhammad go to the grave? (Photo source: freepik.com)

May Allah bless and greet the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ!

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Forgive my mother Fatima bint Assad. "(Taberani).

Becoming a Muslim

Fatima bint Assad (R.A.) believed in the prophecy of Muhammad (ﷺ), but was in no hurry to become a Muslim. She told the Prophet (ﷺ): “I know the truth of your faith and I understand your call for good. But I want to be with your uncle and I do not want to die in a faith different from that of your uncle. ”

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) replied to these words: “Oh, Mommy! I will not be able to endure the fact that you will burn in the fire of Hell! " (Belazuri, "Ensabul Eshraf"). And only when ten-year-old Ali (R.A.) and his twenty-year-old brother Jafar (R.A.) converted to Islam, Fatima bint Assad (R.A.) embarked on the path of Islam and became a Muslim.

After moving to Medina, the Prophet (ﷺ) sometimes visited her and spent his midday nap with her (Ibn Sa'dand, Tabakat).

Her zeal in the path of Islam

Becoming a Muslim, she devoted herself to the service of Islam and, being with her husband, firmly resisted all the hardships and oppression from the polytheists. After the death of Abu Talib, she and a group of Muslims moved to Medina, that is, performed the hijra. There Fatima bint Assad (RA) lived with Ali and Fatima (RA).

It should be noted that her sons Talib and Akil fought against the Muslims at the Battle of Badr. Akil, before the Muslims took Mecca, arrived in Medina and converted to Islam (Ibn Manzur, "Mukhtasar").

Her reward

In the fourth year of Hijra, Fatima bint Asad (R.A.) died.

“One day, when we were sitting next to the Prophet (ﷺ), one person came and said:“ O Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)! The mother of Ali, Jafar and Akila died. The Prophet (ﷺ) said to those next to him: "Get up, let's go to my mother." We got up and silently went to the house of the deceased. When we approached the door of the house, the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) took off his shirt and commanded us: "Wash and spread it under the shroud." When the water was ready, he spilled camphor into it with his own hands. The Prophet (ﷺ) called the freedman Osama ibn Zayed, Abu Ayyub al-Ansari, Umar ibn Khattab and a black slave (may Allah be pleased with them all) to him, commanding them to dig a grave.

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Loves? Or does he not? If you doubt whether your man really has this warm and wonderful feeling for you - don't panic, writes Viral Tolkien Encyclopedia.

There are 8 things only men do who really love their woman.

He is listening to you carefully

Attention is the highest form of respect. So it really makes sense: if your partner really loves you, they will watch what you say and try to figure out what you have to say.

If your man regularly asks about your affairs and life, your opinions and thoughts, you can be sure that he appreciates you.

He argues with you

You are people. There will be times when you disagree with each other. The fact that this is happening means that your man is also worried and does not want to close off from you.

On the other hand, a man can step back and hide in his comfort zone without trying to solve the problem. This is not an option either!

Look for someone who can make arguments and compromise.

He makes sacrifices for your happiness

Everything must have a healthy balance. After all, everyone has their own things to do.

However! If your man spends his time and energy to be with you when he has other things to do (well, except for the most important ones), then he definitely loves you.

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